He says one of his favorite moments is when Elio’s father (Michael Stuhlbarg) tells his son the importance of being vulnerable in love: “I got a lot of mail from gay men in their 60s who basically said, ‘This book moved me because I only wish my father said that to me.’”Īlthough the movie ends on the Hanukkah following Elio and Oliver’s summer romance, the book closes 20 years later. “The best scenes in the movie were right out of the book,” he says. Would 18 have been a better age? I don’t know.”Īlthough director Luca Guadagnino made some changes when translating the book to the big screen, Aciman says he’s happy with the final product. This is wrong.’ We’re not talking about 10-year-olds. “There’s clearly abuses out there, horrible abuses, but Elio is the one who asks and Oliver says, ‘We can’t do this.

“ is so consensual, I don’t even give it a second thought,” he says. “Everybody assumes that if they suddenly have a stirring for the same sex that it’s only them … that nobody feels this way, but we all do.”ĭespite some expressing concern about the seven-year gap between the lovers, Aciman sees nothing wrong with their love. “This is the biggest secret of humanity,” he says. ‘Everybody assumes that if they suddenly have a stirring for the same sex that it’s only them … that nobody feels this way, but we all do.’ Aciman, who has a brief cameo as Elio’s family’s friend, says he hopes the story’s same-sex romance will resonate with everyone. Opening in New York Friday, the film stars Armie Hammer and Timothée Chalamet as the star-crossed lovers. A film producer bought the rights to the story that same year. When it was published in 2007, critics called it a modern gay classic, albeit one written by a writer who isn’t gay. Written in just three months, “Call Me By Your Name” is a tender coming-of-age tale about Elio, a 17-year-old genius who falls in love with Oliver, a 24-year-old graduate student who’s studying with Elio’s professor father for the summer. It just blossomed out of my own curiosity.”

“And then there was a young man who comes in the picture … I wasn’t planning on writing that kind of story.

“I was writing about a nice house with a pine alley … there was a young man in the house, basically a portrait of who I would be if I grew up in Italy,” the 66-year-old, who grew up in Egypt, tells The Post. Frustrated, the Upper West Side novelist and City University of New York professor started writing a love story set on the Italian Riviera in the mid-1980s. It started in April 2005, when André Aciman’s plans to take his wife and three sons to a Mediterranean villa fell through. “Call Me By Your Name,” expected to be one of this year’s Oscar favorites, came together because of a botched vacation.

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